Planning and organising a funeral can be an overwhelming and stressful experience for anyone. Even if a death was expected, it can often feel difficult to know where to start, and what the necessary arrangements should be.
At Harold Wood Funeral Services, we have been offering a helping hand through the funeral arranging process for more than seven decades. In entrusting your loved ones to us, you can rest assured that we will guide you through the various funeral choices available to you, and ensure that no detail is missed.
One of the first tasks that should be completed when someone passes away is to register their death.
You do not need to have registered a death at the appropriate Registrars in order to begin making funeral arrangements with us. However, we will need the certificate for burial or cremation (green form) as soon as you have registered with us. If the coroner becomes involved, we’ll advise you as to whether we might be able to collect the necessary forms on your behalf.
We can provide you with an invoice in advance so that it can be taken directly to the Deceased’s bank with a Death Certificate. This can allow for the release of funeral expenses, and means you will be eligible for an early payment discount.
When you are making your funeral plans, it will be easier to decide on a definite date if you already have a time booked to visit a Registrar. Paperwork deadlines can sometimes dictate when a funeral takes place, and though they do vary, these deadlines are commonly around a week after submission.
When it comes to filling out and signing our paperwork, we usually require two signatures for our own forms. It may be worth considering which responsible person you are going to take with you to sign the paperwork. One of the individuals responsible for signing the paperwork should be an executor or next of kin, and must be at least 18 years of age. Please let us know if the next of kin is in receipt of DWP benefits or is in full-time education, or not a UK resident, so we can give you the most accurate advice.
Deciding whether to opt for a burial or a cremation is a very personal decision. Sometimes the decision will be taken out of your hands due to the wishes left behind by your loved ones. On other occasions, the decision will fall to you.
We can answer questions such as:
Whatever your decision, we will offer advice and insights into both types of funerals so that you can choose the best option for you and your family.
These days there are so many options available to you when it comes to organising a funeral service and we can help you choose the type of service that best suits your needs and your loved one’s wishes. Though we do organise services that are religious in nature, these are not the only types of services that we can organise for you. Non-religious funerals, woodland burials and funerals unattended by mourners are some of the options available that we can discuss with you.
As well as discussing different types of service choices with you, we can answer questions like:
If you have a celebrant or minister in mind, what sort of person would you like to lead the service?
If your loved one has left behind specific wishes for a specific funeral service that you are not knowledgeable about, we can explain these details to you and your family.
While you are planning your funeral service, one of the funeral choices you’ll have to make is the time of day you wish it to take place. It’s possible that you will be limited to certain times of day based on the travel commitments of those attending the funeral, especially if they live relatively far away.
However, here are some of the considerations to keep in mind when arranging a time for your funeral:
Some costs are also increased for the following reasons:
The time you choose for your funeral service will largely depend on how many people you have in attendance, what your budget is and whether you have plans to host any kind of buffet or lunch afterwards. For example, a late morning service would make more sense than an early service if you are planning on eating afterwards, and a service starting some time after lunch will be good if you only want to feed your mourners once in the day,
When making your funeral choices, it is a good idea to think about your travel arrangements such as:
By planning these details with us in advance, you can ensure that you won’t be running late or wanting for anything, and that the experience is as stress-free as possible – freeing you to focus on your loved ones and your family.
Music is often a central element of a funeral service, and will likely be one of your most personal funeral choices. After all, every individual and every family has a song or composition that is particularly special and meaningful to them and their loved ones.
Questions we may ask around music include:
Whatever your queries or concerns about your funeral choices and plans, we are here to offer a helping hand, making the process as smooth and unobtrusive as possible for your family and friends.